Some people say that it is better to marry someone of the same background than to marry someone of the different background (educational, social, cultural, racial, and religious). Do you agree? Why or why not?
结婚虽然是两个人的事，但结婚以后就是两家家族，甚至众多家族的事了。两人相恋时，还没介入家族，自然对很多事物感觉不太深。可结婚以后，就完全不同了。是众多家族成员组成的聚会、活动、生活圈了。如果两人成长时的家庭背景差异太大，不但家族不适应，还会造成两人很多的困惑和矛盾。所以，为了以后的幸福，请仔细慎重考虑。祝快乐幸福！
我觉得还是性格相似的比较好，这样两个人比较有共同的语言，我以前也觉得应该找个性格互的，但是相互一段时间后，感觉差距太大，所以还是找相似性格的比较好啊
关于结婚对象的选择，不同人有不同的答案，是否能最终步入婚姻的殿堂，除了彼此是否真心相爱以外，各自的成长背景往往会在其中扮演重要角色。
有的人倾向于选择跟自己家庭背景相似的人结婚，毕竟在中国，“门当户对”的传统早已深入人心。恋爱可以仅仅是两个人之间的事而婚姻则至少关系到两个家庭甚至是两个家族。相似的成长环境往往会造就相似的人生观、价值观以及类似的性格和习惯，如此一来，相爱的彼此也更容易找到共语言，基于此的婚姻也更容易美满长久；
站在另一个角度，有的人却认为选择与自己家庭背景不同的人结婚更利于彼此促进、取长补短。正是由于成长环境对人的精神和性格层面的塑造至关重要，不同环境下成长的人往往有各自的长处和缺点。不同背景下成长的人结婚无论是对于彼此性格的互补还是未来发展的互助都有着很大的裨益。
在我看来，基于不同背景的人结婚会埋下很多隐患。热恋中的人往往是盲目、理想化的，对于彼此原则上的分歧也更容易被忽略和掩盖。而一旦结婚后就不得不面对残酷的现实，以前的不切实际的想法逐渐破碎，观念上的本质不同会将生活中摩擦和矛盾不断放大以至于最终一发而不可收拾。所以，相比之于不同的背景我更愿意选择相似背景的人结婚，组建幸福家庭。
On the choice of marriage, different people have different answers, whether can walk down the aisle in the end, in addition to whether really love each other, their respective background tend to play an important role in it .
Some people tend to choose a similar background with his family to marry, after all, in China, "suitable" traditional already thorough popular feeling. Love can only be between two people, marriage is at least two families and even more. Similar growing environment tend to make a similar outlook on life, values and similar personality and habits, as a result, loving each other is also easier to find a common language, based on this happy ,marriage were also more likely to endure .
Stand in another point of view, some people think to choose different from our own family background to marry more conducive to promote each other and complement each other. It is because of growing environment to shape people's spirit and character level is crucial, people in different environment often have their own strengths and weaknesses. Grew up to marry under different background both for character of complementary to each other and the future development of mutual aid has a great help.
Based on the background of different people, in my opinion, marriage would be buried under a lot of hidden dangers. Lovestruck men tend to be blind, idealistic, for each other in principle differences were also more likely to be ignored and hide. And once after getting married, had to face the harsh reality, had unrealistic idea gradually broken, the essence of the concept different friction and conflict in life will be continuously enlarge and that eventually arise. So, compared to the different background, I prefer to choose the similar backgrounds to marry, to form a happy family.
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